Is bullying an indirect result of biomechanics?
I think there is more of a connection than you might think.
I’m watching this show on Netflix right now that I’m enjoying called “Adolescence.”
I find it interesting because it opened up a world that I haven’t really paid much attention to in awhile.
And that is the world of bullying in high schools. Something I experienced, myself, growing up in a public high school in New York as a ‘nerd’.
As I was watching it I formed a new hypothesis i’d never held before… that bullying is an indirect effect of biomechanical collapse.
Yes that’s going to seem like a stretch for some of you… but hear me out.
The problem of bullying
Bullying is rampant in high schools. I’m most familiar with bullying in the US but in the show they show how it’s also very prevalent in the UK.
And i’m sure it’s blown up around the world.
The question is why? Is it just human nature?
Is it that the strong will always pick on the weak?
And has it always been like this throughout human history for hundreds of years? Or has it gotten worse?
I was bullied a little bit in elementary school for being a nerd. I got very good grades and quite honestly looked and acted like a nerd.
But the kids that bullied me were never the ones with the best structure. The kids with the best structure were too busy playing sports and doing other things.
And so it was other kids that were at least a level or two below those with the best structure who gave me the hardest time.
I have a feeling this will often be the pattern in many schools.
Why do the weak get picked on?
To answer this question I think you first need to explore the definition of ‘weak’. In my view the most critical element is neurology.
And i’ve very much seen this first hand.
When my neurology was poor this past decade I made for a very easy target. When it got stronger I made for a much harder one.
It’s just something you feel off of a person. We innately ‘feel’ when a person is weak.
And if we don’t know the person we start to poke a bit without even consciously thinking about it. We’re testing their mettle to see how far we can poke.
My relationship with my mother is a good example of this… When we were on calls back some years ago when i wasn’t healthy she would push me a fair bit. Tell me all of her ‘advice’ on things I should change, etc.
And it would upset me sometimes as I felt like she just didn’t understand these biomechanics, nor try to understand them.
Now that I’m healthy she knows to not even try to give me this advice that she knows I disagree with. Because I deflect in a way that says… “step the fuck back. And then stay there.”
Usually this happens by me cracking a few well placed jokes in areas I know she is sensitive about.
When people push you gotta let them know clearly where the line is. And a healthy Ken did that in his 20’s without thinking.
My point is… the amount people pushed me and how far they pushed me has been a direct reflection of the health of my neurology these past 10 years.
Do the strong pick on the strong?
This is another point that i think is worth thinking about. The strong almost never pick on the strong.
For example in high school there was a group that was sort of a mini-gang. And some members sold drugs, etc.
They would pick on various people. They stopped me once and stole my hat, for example, when I was like 12 years old.
But they never gave the jocks any problems. Because they knew that it would have resulted in problems and probably physical altercations.
Which did happen occasionally, but typically not as a result of someone being picked on.
It’s just much easier to pick on the weak.
Now imagine a world where with these biomechanics pretty much everyone was healthy and strong. Maybe nobody would pick on each other because everyone is strong?
And therefore bullying would go away.
Do the ‘structurally healthy’ pick on the weak?
This is the last point I wanted to raise.
I think when one human picks on another their skull is likely under at least some compression. And if they had perfect structure they likely wouldn’t feel the need to pick on someone weaker.
Let’s take Micheal Jordan for example. He was known for being incredibly competitive and getting on some teammates’ backs for not playing hard enough. But can you see Jordan just picking on someone weak just for the hell of it?
I have a tough time picturing it. The people with great structure just don’t seem to ever be picking on others for the hell of it.
I have my own little story that I think also reflects this. As I get healthier the past couple years I also don’t feel any need to bully anyone. I’ll give you an example.
I remember in 2021 I was working with some folks and there was one good-natured guy who I enjoyed to tease in a bit of a negative way. I’m not sure why… I just did.
I guess internally I thought he was weaker or something.
But I still work with this person a bit today and now I don’t feel any such desire. It was not because I made an effort to stop cracking the jokes… it simply happened naturally as I got healthier.
Closing thoughts
Bullying seems rampant in schools these days. Particularly in countries like the US and UK where they are also the furthest along in this cycle of biomechanical collapse.
Which is something I discussed here.
And it seems to be getting worse and worse with each generation. Just like biomechanical collapse is.
I have a feeling it is not a mere coincidence.
Rather I have a feeling they are going to conclude one day that this rise in bullying has a lot more to do with biomechanical collapse than social media and other common reasons that are blamed.
So perhaps the key to all kids being able to enjoy school without being bullied is fixing this biomechanical collapse on everyone… once and for all.
Or perhaps I’m just full of shit? Hahaha
This is interesting and lines up with what i experienced with braces too.
I used to never pick on anyone as a kid. I got braces and a few years later, idk why, but i picked on a girl for a few months who was a bit further along in biomechanical collapse than i was. It was completely out of character for me to do such a thing, when previously i always helped people with whatever i could.
Then after those few months i stopped and then I became picked on by kids who just got their braces. Meanwhile the fastest, strongest, smartest kids in the class were wholly unbothered by this whole thing.
I think movies like to portray it a certain way that the 'jocks' pick on the 'nerds' but that never happened to me either. It was those kids who were like pretty much falling from their 'status' in a sense that tried to grasp their way back up in the heirarchy.
In hungary there usually was a level of respect if someone was good at something, even if not in other things. But that respect tends to fall as someone become less good at said thing. Idk if the same is true in the US but i cant imagine it's far off.
Looking back, there were a lot of behavioral and neurological changes that took place during my braces treatment. I even cut ties with my best friend for literally no reason. I started to get migraines at like 10yo, i picked on people, then i became a loner, my grades suffered, then eventually i just became mute.
Yes, it's the biometric field - to do with consciousness. The bully's toroidal field spins slower than the kid being bullied, which via inductance sends the bully's field into a high speed wobble - imbalance/anger/fear. There is also the fear that the bullied kid embodies, which needs to be balanced/healed. To do this the kid or adult learns to stay in the now - no ruminating on what might happen... In many cases a bully stands down at the last min, simply by staying out of fear.