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In chinese culture, there is this saying "相由心生" which translates to 'appearances are born from the heart'. the basic idea is that your face/ appearance is a translation of your inner state of being

ever since i made the link as to why body tension/ trauma affects our face i've been observing and experiencing myself as well as those around me and have become a firm believer of the adage. I myself can map that the right side of my face/ eye used to be more scrunched/ sunken, and as i released tension on the right side of my occiput/ neck, it has become more relaxed, open, prominent, as has my mental state. and i've observed that people who are kind almost always have good looking faces - of course, sometimes you can see people who are kind but also in pain - the two can, and perhaps often, go together. and people who look 'tough', 'hard', are also the same way in their thought and behavior.

what happens when implants are implemented? just as orthodontics can be done in a 'good' way, i think there can be both good and bad outcomes. but the underlying reason why one goes for facial implants is often tied to compensation for an inner lack - and in that case, that inner lack will somehow translate into the quality-configuration-choice of implants. as is the case with plastic surgery, there are some celebrities who are able to do it 'properly' - something that suits them, ages well, generally enhances their appearance without being too 'obvious'. but there are many who can't control themselves and keep going for more and more - their face reflecting their state of inner confusion and artificiality.

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Hey Ken, how about sharing your results and motivating us even more?

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